Happy marriage




Do you know how to maintain a happy marriage or improve a marriage?

Research has shown that married couples who sleep on different beds/in different rooms actually have a happier marriage compared to those who share the same bed.

When couples share the same bed, they actually woke each other up for about 5-6 times in a night. It could be due to the sound of snoring or being kicked at by the other half. Often, they would get pissed off which therefore results in having some unhappiness between each other.

The most shocking thing is that the total amount of time from the lost of sleep due to all these can add up to 2 years. This is really long.


There is a real case where the wife actually divorced with his husband because she could not stand him for getting onto the bed only late at night because he spent a lot of time playing computer games. o.o For me, I really cannot stand my other half playing computer games or doing something which might affect our relationship because I will feel that the games and other things else are more important than me! =(

I wish to tell that man that, “Hey, you are married! You think you are still young? Think of your wife!” *shrug*


You see, in whatever you do, you have to think of your other half. It is much easier to love each other than live with each other. Well, human relationship is always the most difficult subject to begin with.


One more fact!
You may think that it is redundant to say “Thank you” or “Sorry” to your other half, you are so wrong then! If you do so, you may realise that your relationship with him/her may have strained. I think it is sweet to say “Thank you, my dear” because it shows him/her that you appreciate for what he/she has done for you. But, do not expect me to say that other than “Thank you” =/
It is important that you do not take your other half for granted just because you are the most person in his/her life. Know what I mean?


I know I might sound like one expert in this area but I am definitely not.


I think I will be a bad wife because I do snore when I sleep - not always and definitely not that loud. =D My parents and sis told me about this and a friend too because I fell asleep while studying and so he heard it. = p

On top of this, sometimes I wake up with all my pillows, blanket and soft toys on the floor except for myself. So, I am not surprised that I wake up finding my husband on the floor on the following day. Laugh-out-loud. I do not know why but sometimes I do fall on the floor while sleeping. The weird thing is my body seems to be able to detect it and wakes up on time or else my bones will surely break. When this happens, I would quickly wake up and jump on my bed to sleep again. Well, I usually jump flat on my bed and smile instead of taking my own sweet time climbing on my bed to sleep. *yawn*