Define it

I used to think that life is about trial and errors until I met some unfavourable circumstances which made me change my point of view. I think it is about cruelty. Sometimes, people tell you your mistake(s) without even giving you a chance to amend it and condemn you. Being a coward self, you would usually keep quiet and accept the new title given to you. But, before you condemn someone, has it even occurred to you that you make/made mistake(s) too? Perhaps, you agreed that you did but you might protest that at least you would never commit such a grave mistake. Define what a grave mistake is, please.

I am trying to understand the situation now. Can we even afford to make a mistake? If you tell me that the answer is a ‘No’, congrats, we are on the same boat. I am getting the feeling that we must be a perfect individual, with no fraud at all. Look at yourself in the mirror, reflect upon yourself and be frank.

Sometimes, chance(s) are given to you silently, is it fair? Nope. You must be a silent killer, duh.

Well, sometimes, I am really in a loss. Lately, I have been going around asking for lots of advices for I feel that I am not allowed to make any mistake at all which puts me in a very stressful situation. =/ I am still in the process of making a very important decision - not about life and death nor marriage but still as important to me. Wish me luck!