Rejuvenated
This space
has been neglected for so long that I wonder if anyone else still remembers
this blog. Ha.
Many had
happened since then but I am a much happier person now. Life is good. I love my
job and free time (freedom) – no longer obliged to give all my weekends away.
Having said that, ever since I embarked on a new project at work, I am required
to work overtime for at least three nights per week and some of my Saturdays will
be burnt for months. To be frank, I am pretty resistant to give my Saturdays away
but… I really want this job so I will bear with it. Till then, I shall have the final say to my
weekends. J
Last night,
I finally had my 'me' time which I had wanted for awhile. I miraculously found my way
from City Hall to the Starbucks located at Fullerton (hopefully the crowd will
not be multiplied after I posted this. Ha.) For someone like me who has no
sense of direction, it was definitely a big achievement. I was very worried while finding my
way there without any GPS or any sort of assistance. I am proud of myself! LOL.
Anyway, I have
decided that if I still remain single next year, I will take up a short course
to enrich myself. By next year, I will turn 26 and if I still remain single,
the likelihood of me getting married should be pretty low. I am not sure if I would
be comfortable to date someone for just two years and decide to marry him. More
importantly, I resist the idea of staying with the in-law (really bad
experience with… anyway it was enough for me to resist it). If there is really
a need to, both parties must be willing to compromise. We are living in 2014
now and so why should the girls change entirely for the guy just because she is
married to the guy? Guys should be reminded that the girls are as capable and
independent as them now. Some are really too chauvinist. Tsk. If you want me to obey you, show me that you are more capable, independent, and intelligent than me, period.