Wrong move VS Gullible
I had another encounter on how I should not be soft-hearted. Well, a candidate was supposed to turn up for interview today but he did not. After calling him for several times, he still did not pick up. Until one hour later, he finally called back.
He claimed that he met up with an accident therefore he could not pick up my call just now and I immediately believed him. I even told him to rest well and take his time to call me. He kept apologizing and assured me that he would call back tomorrow. So, how could I not believe him?
After telling the whole story to my manager and colleagues, they felt that I should not believe him.
But, I still insisted on trusting him when they work there much longer than I do. Erm. Wait. Not that he is handsome (which I can’t know since he did not attach his photo to his resume), but through his tone, I felt that he was telling the truth.
Then, a colleague said if let say, my boyfriend broke up with me because of a third party and came back to me on one fine day and apologized, the chance that I would forgive and patch back with him is high. Guess what? I think she is quite right. I am nut. I am hopeless. No matter how many times I am being disappointed and hurt, I still believe that everyone is nice and kind-hearted when
many are
not at all. How pathetic.
Anyway, for some reason, I felt rather emotional for the whole day. On my way to the tutee’s house, I tried very hard to swallow my tears down.
Once again, some make me feel that I have no rights to feel sad.